Godfrey
Yesterday,
I went on another home visit, this time to the home of Godfrey and his son,
Brian. Brian is in Kinder at LOAMO, and Godfrey works in the kitchen there.
Each morning, they bike down from their home to the stoplight, where Godfrey
drops Brian off so he can catch the bus. Godfrey is not allowed to take the bus,
so he bikes all the way through the city to LOAMO. The ride from their home is
not an easy one, by any means. The road to their house is made of sand and mud
and lies along a steep hill. It took us thirty five to forty minutes just to
drive to their home from the school. Once we arrived, we were surprised to see
five mud huts, each no bigger than a small bedroom, surrounded by huge, lush
trees. Godfrey led us to his home, where we were greeted by his wife, his
wife’s grandmother (who is between 90 and 100 years of age), and their five
children. We walked into their home and saw that they only had two rooms. The
main family room had two couches, a small coffee table, and one small cabinet filled
with all their dishes and clothing. On the wall behind the couches, their shoes
were hung from nails. There was no electricity, heat, or running water. When we
asked where the bathrooms were, they waved their hands in a circle, meaning, “We
go anywhere”. Once the family was comfortable with four “wazungus” (the word
for white people in Tanzania) in their home, we started to ask them questions.
Money and water are the two main resources
that they lack. In order to get water, they have to walk several miles to an
ever-changing water source and back, which is very difficult because they live
on a steep hill and have to carry several buckets of water. Their two eldest
daughters, who are eighteen and nineteen, had to drop out of secondary school
because they could not afford their schooling anymore. Now, they spend their
time at home, keeping the house tidy and preparing food. Their oldest son, who
is fourteen, goes to a small, government-run school in the city. In Tanzania,
the government school’s level of education is not like that of LOAMO – it is very
minimal. The only reason that Brian, their second, seven-year-old son, goes to
school at LOAMO is that LOAMO allows one child of a staff member to attend
school for a reduced price. Their last child, who is four, does not go to
school, even though she is old enough to attend baby class. After we
established their financial situation, we asked about where they got their
food. They explained that Godfrey’s wife sells produce in the town below their
home. Godfrey is the chef at LOAMO, so he brings home food each day, which
creates an atmosphere of sharing between them and the four other families that
live there.
It was so inspiring to meet and
learn about Godfrey’s family. They live so simply and even with the little
education, water and food they receive, they are so happy. They welcomed
strangers (Ms. Gutmann, Mallory, Tate and myself) whom they had never met into
their home with open arms and let us ask personal questions, which I’m sure was
intimidating. Every home visit is different. There are some heartbreaking
stories and some stories that make you smile for hours. I think going on these
home visits is so inspiring because we usually only get to see their lives from
an outsider’s point of view. Everyday, we only get to see how the children at
LOAMO act in school, and actually going to their homes and hearing about their
struggles opens our eyes to how different and beautiful the lives of the people
here in Tanzania are.
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